In
2010, Sandra Bullock's life was forever altered by a phone call. "Your
child is here," declared the voice on the other end.
Weeks
later, she stood on a stage, receiving her first Oscar for her role in The
Blind Side. Despite the honor, her thoughts were elsewhere. "All I could
think about was getting home to feed Lou," she confessed, referring to her
newborn, the arrival of whom she had eagerly awaited for years.
Continue
reading to discover more about this remarkable actress and the inspiration
behind her decision to adopt two children!
In
2005, in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina's devastation in Louisiana, Sandra
Bullock was moved by a feeling that ultimately inspired her to adopt a child.
"Katrina
happened in New Orleans, and something inside me said, 'My child is there.' It
was strange," Bullock revealed in an interview with Hoda Kotb on Today.
Years
later, in January 2010, Bullock finally received the long-awaited call she had
been anticipating for years.
"He
was unexpected, unplanned. One day, I received a call: 'Your placement is
here.' And that was years after filing for adoption," the 59-year-old
Speed star shares with CBS News.
Little
Lou
Speaking
affectionately about Louis Bardo Bullock, the three-month-old boy she
discreetly adopted from New Orleans in 2010, Bullock shared, "I looked at
him and thought, 'Oh, there you are.' It felt like he had always
belonged." Recalling the moment, she added, "He fit perfectly in the
crook of my arm. When he looked into my eyes, there was a wisdom beyond his years.
My child was wise."
The
Miss Congeniality star reflects, "I was always told, 'The perfect child
will find you. You will find your child.' But it's hard to believe when it
hasn't happened yet. When you're wondering, 'Where is my family?' But when it
finally does happen, you understand exactly what they mean."
Weeks
after Lou arrived, Bullock stood on stage at the Kodak Theatre, accepting her
first Oscar for her lead role in the film, The Blind Side.
But
Lou captured her attention, and she longed to be at home with him instead of on
the center stage.
"All
I could think about was, 'He's at home.' I didn't care about being there. I
just wanted to go home. And then I was sewn into the dress. I had to struggle
to get out of it, but all I wanted was to go home and feed Lou."
Merely
days later, her marriage to reality star Jesse James fell apart, leaving
Bullock to navigate single motherhood with an infant.
Bullock
reflected, "So much had happened. How do you process grief without
affecting your child? A newborn absorbs everything you're feeling. My priority
was Lou, ensuring that my grief didn't overshadow the first year of his
life."
‘Louis’
got the stage’
"No
one comprehends the change in priorities that comes with having a child until
they experience it themselves," Bullock remarked about her shift from
career to motherhood. "It happens organically... he came into my life, and
now, Louis takes center stage."
Raised
in a nurturing and joyful atmosphere, young Lou glanced up at their mother one
day and confidently declared, "I think I'll be having a baby soon."
While
Bullock acknowledges that expanding her family wasn't in her plans, she heeded
her son's suggestion, which sparked the idea.
"At
that moment, it struck me that perhaps he had some insight. Reflecting on it,
it coincided with Laila's birth," Bullock recounted. "That's just
Louis—he has a remarkable intuition. He's a natural leader, and he guided me to
Laila."
Laila,
formerly in foster care in Louisiana, became her daughter when she joined the
family in 2015 at the age of three.
Reflecting
on Laila's distress during her time in childcare, the Ocean's 8 star recounted,
"She'd retreat to the closet fully clothed, perch on a bookshelf, always
on edge, ready to escape." The actress emphasized that she consistently
reassured Laila of her enduring presence, letting her know she wasn't
"going anywhere."
She
later recounted a conversation she had with Bryan Randall, the paternal figure
to her children and her partner from 2015 until ALS tragically took his life in
2023. She recalled, "My partner mentioned to me, 'Once she's been with us
longer than she hasn't, I believe we'll notice a shift.'"
His
intuition proved correct. Recently, Bullock depicted Laila as
"fearless."
"She's
a survivor, and that's why she's here today. She fought to preserve her spirit.
Oh, the incredible things she will achieve. She's poised to make a real
difference."
Lou,
now 13, "is incredibly perceptive... He possesses wisdom and
compassion," the Bird Box star shares with People. "I sensed that the
moment he was placed in my arms. There was a profound spirituality within
him."
While
fans may feel disappointed, the versatile actor is reducing her work
commitments to prioritize her role as a single mother once again.
Bullock's
most recent appearances were in 2022's "The Lost City" alongside
Channing Tatum and "Bullet Train" with Brad Pitt.
"I
can still engage creatively, be part of a community, but at this moment, I need
to hit pause on work in front of the camera," she explained.
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