Based
on personality features, there are two kinds of character as introvert and
extrovert. When a person is reserved and does not open up easily, he or she is
declared to be an introvert. When people are opposite of that, when a person is
friendly, chatty and makes friends fast, then their personality type is an
extrovert.
However,
there is one category which falls between these two types. It is called an
outgoing introvert. People may call them as an extrovert, but they
don’t feel like one. Outgoing introverts are usually mistaken to
be extroverts. On the outside, an extrovert and an outgoing introvert behave in
a same way.
There
are some important facts about them as below,
-need
to go out but have to prepare them psychologically.
-won’t
bother to text back but can sit and listen to a friend for hours.
-love
experiences but also like calm and peace.
-are
unique, artistic, and mysterious people, full of depth, passion, and love.
-find
people interesting, but extremely tiring.
Here
are some common traits of an outgoing introvert:
1. Don’t
like shallow friendships.
They
are the type of people who could reject the offer for dinner if the other
person couldn’t give anything more than a small talk. If your friendship
doesn’t bring them the moral satisfaction they won’t care anymore.
2. Other
people’s comfort is important.
Although
some might take it for flirt because these people are always try to make others
feel comfortable and actually very kind. They could pretend to like the
disgusting meal of your wife just to make you not feel ashamed in public.
3. Handling
too many people is difficult.
Although
they might want to meet every single person, they actually cannot handle too
many people at one time, because it becomes completely tiring. They actually
need more time to make new friends.
4. It
is hard for them to find the right partner.
They
need to know their partner too closely before they commit. They have two faces.
They are positive, grounded, nice, and brave. However, they could also be
self-conscious, shy, silent, and odd.
5. They
need some time to spend alone.
After
a long day at work, what they want is to spend some time away from others just
because they want to relax and concentrate on themselves. Their friends
shouldn’t be insulted if they don’t call back or ask for some time on their
own.
6. The
background is important.
For
them, the environment, the vibe, the music, and the background are very
important and they care about them a lot. If they feel happy, then they could
become the spirit of the group, but if they can’t feel, they could distance
themselves and become quite. So, you need to be tolerant of them since they are
not bad people.
7. Details
are important for them.
When
it comes to the dearest and close people of their life, they want to know all
about them like their character, what makes them sad or happy. It’s hard to lie
to such a person because sooner or later they will find out the truth.
8. Don’t
like empty talks.
These
people are interested in people and their characters. They want to know others’
deep corners, their most intimate secrets. Outgoing introverts are the type of
friend who would gladly listen to your problems, your plans. And they are
better at helping others at least by listening to them. They could understand
your emotions because they are always struggling to understand theirs.
9. Live
in their inner world.
They
always have some kind of a talk running through their minds. This is how the
introvert reveals. They are over thinking all the details someone’s told them
and trying to understand its meaning.
Ultimately,
we all are same, but different. It suggests that we all have the same human
nature, heart, brain, ideas, opinions, yet every person is different from
others. It is true that ‘No two people are alike,’ as our way of thinking,
emotionality and behavior is different from each to everyone and this is what a
personality actually is. If you have more of these traits there’s a high chance
of you to be an outgoing introvert.
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