Chris
proposes to Beth after six months of dating, and his excited family takes
charge of the wedding arrangements. However, their unconventional ideas for the
program prompt Beth to abruptly exit her own wedding.
This
year, my boyfriend Chris surprised me for my 25th birthday by whisking me away
to Hawaii.
It
felt like a fairytale, considering we'd only been together for six months, and
I wasn't anticipating anything extraordinary. Yet there, on the beach, Chris
proposed, and caught up in the magic of the moment, I said yes. Deep down, I
knew six months wasn't ample time to truly know someone before tying the knot.
Unbeknownst
to me, that fairytale was on the brink of unfolding into far more drama than I
ever anticipated.
I
wasn't the type to spend hours daydreaming about my wedding. Thus, when Chris's
family eagerly took the reins, dictating every detail and even offering to
cover the expenses, I went along with it.
I
must confess, there were moments when I felt a bit sidelined, particularly when
I expressed that shades of blue weren't exactly my preference for the color
scheme.
Opting
to contribute to their enthusiasm seemed like the wiser choice rather than
engaging in conflict with them.
On
the day itself, I felt surprisingly calm, reassured by the fact that Chris's
mom and sister had everything under control. Given that I wasn't particularly
close to my own family, apart from my father, they didn't have significant
roles to play in the proceedings.
"Beth,"
his mom, Leeanne, said, adjusting my hair. "I want you to walk down the
aisle with your eyes closed."
"What?
Why?" I exclaimed, already envisioning myself tripping over something as I
walked.
"I
can barely walk properly in these heels with my eyes open," I chuckled.
"It's
just tradition," Leeanne said. "I did it too. The whole idea is about
seeing your husband first—the first thing out of the darkness."
"He's
supposed to be the light," Chris's sister, Maggie, giggled.
The
whole concept sounded peculiar. It wasn't anything I had heard of before, but I
also recognized that people often concocted superstitions and stories.
"I
wouldn't have to wear a blindfold and ruin my makeup, would I?" I asked.
"No,
just close your eyes and hold onto your father's hand tightly," Leeanne
said.
When
I told my dad what I needed to do, he laughed, thinking I was joking.
It
was utterly absurd, no doubt about it. But unfortunately, things only went
downhill from there at my wedding.
At
the altar, I cautiously opened my eyes, anticipating the affectionate gaze of
my fiancé, but what I saw was far beyond anything I had expected.
Chris
smiled at me, and then, in the next moment, another sight jolted me— a woman in
a white dress stood behind him.
I
couldn't discern from his expression whether he was aware of her presence. My
mind raced with questions about her identity, but the murmurs around me quickly
clarified — Julia, Chris's first wife.
"Chris,
what's happening?" I whispered, gesturing towards Julia. My voice barely
carried amidst the collective gasps.
Before
either Chris or I could fully grasp this bizarre twist in the ceremony, Leeanne
walked down the aisle, holding onto a little boy's hand. Every face turned to
look towards them.
Then,
Julia stepped forward, her arms open wide, ready for the boy to walk into them.
"This
is Eli," she said, casting a glance at me. "He's six years old and
autistic. He's the best part of me, but he's also part of Chris. Elizabeth,
this is our son."
"But
he wouldn't have told you that," Maggie chimed in from beside me—she was
one of my bridesmaids.
"Did
you know about Eli?" Maggie asked.
I
shook my head, feeling the weight of the emotion thickening the air. All eyes
were on me, but my focus remained on Chris, yearning for an explanation, an
excuse, a denial—anything.
But
none came. Instead, he nervously fingered his watch, guilt unmistakable on his
face. But none came. Instead, he nervously fingered his watch, guilt
unmistakable on his face.
"Why
didn't you tell me?" I demanded, my voice shaking.
"I
didn't know how," he stammered, avoiding eye contact.
I
turned to look at Eli, who was holding tightly onto Julia's hand, his gaze
scanning the room. Chris's features were unmistakably etched all over his face.
"You
let me believe that your divorce was amicable and that there were no ties to
Julia," I said. "But you left your family. You left your son."
"He
left Eli when he discovered he was autistic," Maggie said loudly.
My
heart sank. How could I have nearly married a man so callous and indifferent?
He abandoned his son because of something inherent to him.
As
the truth unraveled, I felt as though I was being submerged beneath the weight
of it all. Leeanne, upon learning of Chris's desire to remarry, had orchestrated
this dramatic revelation.
"You're
too young, Elizabeth," she said. "You're too young to be entangled in
his mess. He couldn't care for Julia, so she had to care for herself and Eli.
Chris has disappointed me in many ways, but nothing will make up for neglecting
his own child."
It
appeared that my wedding had transformed into a harsh, public lesson directed
at a man who had shirked his responsibilities.
I
kicked off my heels, handing them to Maggie, and walked away from the altar—not
as a bride, but as a woman who had narrowly escaped a life entangled in deceit.
The
experience was painful—yes, it had only been six months of knowing Chris, but I
was certain that what I had felt for him was genuine. That's why it hurt so
deeply when I discovered the truth.
In
the aftermath, I made the decision to prioritize myself. I realized I needed to
travel and embrace life while I was still young. I craved more experiences—both
the good and the bad—to help me determine who I truly wanted to be with.
I
was certain about one thing—I didn't want to be with someone like Chris. A man
who lied about having a son—a son who became invisible to him simply because he
was autistic.
I'm
just thankful that the only expense I incurred was for my wedding dress—which I
promptly returned three days after the so-called wedding.
Even
now, when I reflect on the whole ordeal, I can't say I harbor any resentment.
Leeanne did what she felt was necessary. And she did it to safeguard me and
that sweet little boy.
Have
you ever experienced anything surreal?
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